Being Positive from Inside

          Have you ever wonder, why at certain times you are best while at certain other time you are among the best (Yes in same context)? You are doing the same thing repeatedly and on one particular day you are having a headache or fever or any other health related issues which gives you a reason for not doing your best. If you agree with me till here (most of you will agree), you can go ahead and read out the complete post.

       Well, I am not here to give you a magic wand that will change your life and you will always do best in whatever you do. But I know few enthusiastic personalities who are always at their best in whatever they do and I will tell you what they do inside which is reflected outside in their performance and we take it as their best. I will not say how they do it because it is a very complex equation but it is very simple equation for the person sitting inside us. You may call it unconscious mind or heart or soul or any XYZ component of your body. I am always in touch with this person (also while writing this) and so, you are too connected with this person inside you. And this person always know how to do, we have to only tell His/hers what to do.

          Today morning when I met my niece Aanya, she was having fever and was bit dull. She saw me and came running to me slowly which she doesn’t do normally. I got a signal that something is not right with her; later on I came to know that she is having fever. So I took her into my arms (she is only 1 year old with 6 months of experience) and started doing a little chit-chat with her. This was the same chat that we do daily for sharing our love for each other. It was not like what we do with other patients, like do not worry or you will be fine soon or how it happened or any other bla bla bla that we all talk in these situations. So, Annya was responding to me in the same way as she does every other day and is always at her best and so are all the other kids around us. Later on Annya started dancing which she loves the most listening to any kind of music (and not the noise). So, I was enjoying with her and also wondering that when I used to have fever I always lie down on bed, will take a leave from work, will take some medicine and spent the day on bed. I will hear my family members saying take this you will be ok, do this, and I went to state where I told my inner person that you are not well and you should not work. This person takes my order brings all the weakness inside me and forcefully I have to lie down. But here Annya was enjoying with me dancing, playing and celebrating the beautiful morning with me. Even When I am not well at times and take it as an excuse to rest, when I have friends around me I don’t have to lie down to take rest. I just say to this person inside me that you have to take rest and he knows how to do it.

          So what you need to do as I had pointed earlier that I will tell is to spend your time with kids around you and observe them. Tell your inner person to communicate with the inner person inside the kid. Don’t worry, it may sound stupid to you because it is a very complex equation and your inner person knows to deal with it. While doing so you will also observe that kids are filled with so much positivity which is also transferred in you.

      Also you can do the same observations with your friends, colleagues, boss, family members or any other person you spend your time with (this list should not include your inner self) and you can help them to come out of their negativity without losing your positivity. Or at least you now know when to be not around them.

Bye for now. Happy living.